I got home at twelve o’clock yesterday night, I played out with my colleagues, we had seven peoples. At first, we ate the dinner and then sang in the KTV, Everyone sang their favorite song.

　　When the disco beat rang, we relaxed ourselves and danced it. Perhaps that was too many working pressures in our life, we needed to relax ourselves. I have not sang and danced for a long time in Shenzhen, because I had a working and emotive pressure.

　　 We may choose different relaxing, you may cry loudly on the edge of sea or climb the hill. When we play out, there are too many handicapped in the society, and that they can’t play out that look like us. They are strongly and patiently, they hope to gain other respect. My a friend tell me too many etiquettes with disability, it show you that how to communicate with them and make friends with them. We may fit for a social service assistant and community service development coordinator or similar work .

　　Many people do not know what say or how to act when they meet someone with a disability. People with disabilities have the same feelings as you. Many people with disabilities are professionals and have college degrees. Treat someone with a disability as you would like to be treated and you can't go wrong.

　　Do not park in a disabled parking space unless you have the proper identification and have a disability that warrants you to park there. People need the bigger area to get out wheelchairs etc.

　　Speak to the person who has the disability and not just someone with them. Be patient and ask questions if you can't understand them. Never pretend you can understand someone if you do not. Simply say what you think the person said and they will correct it if necessary. Be patient if someone uses a device to communicate with.

　　Do not talk down to the person or like they are a child (unless they really are a child.)

　　If you want to ask someone about their disability, then ask. Be polite and respectful.

　　People with disabilities are just normal people with physical limitations. Please don't stare for long periods of time.

　　Let your child talk to people with disabilities. It is really sad when parents do not let children ask questions or talk. Children are very accepting.

　　Do not pat someone with a disability on the head. They are not pets or toys. They are people.

　　If it looks like someone with a disability might need some help, just ask them. The worst they can do is say "No, thank you."

　　Not everyone can shake hands. Try a nod or a smile instead.

　　Relax and just be yourself, Speaking and Writing.

　　Please avoid these words/terms when referring to a person with a disability. Cripple, victim, defect, invalid, sick, diseased, wheelchair bound.

　　Please use terms such as physically disabled or "He/she uses a wheelchair..." Remember they are people first and disabled second.

　　When you are with someone in a wheelchair, do not push, drive, lean on, grab, hold or anything else to their wheelchair without permission. This is their personal space and property.

　　Rearrange furniture if there is something blocking the way of their wheelchair.

　　Try to get on eye level with the person if possible.